What does it mean to be a genuinely attractive guy? Ever give thought to that? And why is opting to be in the friend zone much more attractive than most of you think? For the answer, let’s take a look at my past: A lot of you that have been keeping up with my website know that I started out sleeping with a lot of BBW by first being friends with them, or being a friend of a friend. Before the website, my way of getting a girlfriend or getting laid was to just chill out, be a very fun guy, and let the women become attracted to me or to let them introduce me to one of their friends. However, after I started my website, I became incredibly arrogant, pretty much shunned any girl that was “just a friend”, and insisted that every new chubby girl I met either sleep with me that night or go out on a date with me. If you go through my archives, you can see me demanding this of the new women I had met.

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That was one of the biggest mistakes I had ever made. Why? Because when you have multiple female friends, you get laid a lot easier. How so? When you meet a new busty girl, and you just focus on being a fun guy, not even hinting at a date or sex when you get their phone number, they want to hang out with you because you aren’t outcome dependent; you are a guy that wants nothing from them. However, when you are a guy that appears to want something from a plus size girl, whether it is a date, or sex, you may actually become less attractive. When I first started having sex and all of my friends weren’t, it was because I was taking advantage of that bit of knowledge. 99% of men don’t even know that in the minds of BBW, they are going about things the wrong way when they hint at wanting sex or a date.

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You might be wondering why this is so, and I’ll tell you: If you are a genuinely attractive guy, you know that eventually, the girl or one of her friends will become sexually attracted to you, regardless of if you’re friends or not, as attraction is not a choice. On the other hand, if you know that you really aren’t that attractive of a guy, you absolutely dread the friend zone, because you know that she will see you for who you really are, and therefore, you try to hurry up the date or sexual encounter. One guy has the attitude of “I’ll eventually get sex, whether it’s now, or another day, because I am a genuinely attractive guy.”, while the guy that isn’t genuinely attractive has the attitude of “I gotta hurry up and get sex from this busty girl before she realizes that I’m not really a genuinely attractive guy.”.

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Believe it or not, BBW pick up on this. They prefer men that don’t mind being in the friend zone first. Why? Because it allows them to see men for who they really are: either a genuinely attractive guy, or a guy that is putting up a temporary attractive façade. And when a guy is afraid of being a little patient, his desperation shows. Of course BBW don’t tell you this, but it’s something that they judge men by, whether it’s consciously, or unconsciously. In their minds, a guy that doesn’t seem to want anything is a guy that has other options, aka he is pre-selected by other overwieght women. I believe that is why a lot of the women I dated early on, and women who don’t know who I am, assume that I am a player; I never seem to want anything from them.

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What can you do about this? When you talk to a new busty girl, just focus on having fun and providing them with value (ask yourself what would BBW want to talk about in a bar or nightclub); be the type of guy that they would want to have a friendship with (you’ll get what you want later). In fact, do what I’ve been doing with the majority of new chubby women lately: disqualify yourself by telling them that you are only interested in a friendship, and that you have no intention of being a boyfriend or going out on a date. This will intrigue them and they’ll want to keep you around.

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Regardless of if you’re in the friend zone or not, if you are a genuinely attractive guy, and not a guy that just puts up an attractive façade, these BBW will become attracted to you and find a way to let you know it. The friend zone is only bad if you aren’t genuinely attractive, otherwise, it will work to your advantage with each and every girl that you meet.

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